Links to Divorce with Dignity Mediation Services Referral Resources on the Internet

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Links & Resources

Mediation Organizations

(202) 464-9700

New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators

(800) 981-4800

Information About Choosing a Mediator

Advice from Divorce Magazine

Choosing a Divorce Mediator by Julie Denny

Information About Divorce

DivorceHeadquarters

DivorceNet

DivorcesSource

Divorce Support

Parents without Partners

Rainbows of New Jersey (for Children)

Straight Spouse Network

New Jersey Judiciary

New Jersey Child Support Guidelines

New Jersey Judiciary

Opinions of the New Jersey Courts

"Parenting Time: A Child's Right" Brochure

Reciprocal Links with Other Mediators

Carl Cangelosi, JD, APM/New Jersey Mediation Group

George and Beverly Hays/Hays Mediation Group

Paul Kostro, Esq./Confidential Mediation Website

Supervised Parenting/Neutral Exchange

Safe Harbor Child Access Centers

Weekend Workshops - Can Your Relationship Be Saved?

Imago Couples Workshops in NJ, MA & WA with Betsy & Bruce Berquist

Other Government/Legal

Internal Revenue Service

New Jersey Taxation

Office of Legislative Services

Rutgers Law Library

Social Security

Books on Separation/Divorce for Children

Dinosaurs Divorce by Marc Brown and Laurie Krasny Brown

It's Not Your Fault Koko Bear by Vicki Lansky

Mom's House, Dad's House for Kids: Feeling at Home in One Home or Two by Isolina Ricci

Books on Divorce, Mediation and Finance for Adults

Cooperative Parenting and Divorce, "Shielding Your Child From Conflict" - A Parent's Guide to Effective Co-Parenting by Susan Blyth Boyan & Ann Marie Termini

Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life by Abigail Trafford

The Fundamentals of Family Mediation by John M. Haynes

Prince Charming Isn't Coming: How Women Get Smart About Money by Barbara Stanny (Note, also appropriate for men!)

Reconcilable Differences: A Consumer's Guide to Divorce Mediation by William H. Donahue, Jr.

Taking the Conflict Out of Child Custody - Seven Quick Awareness Exercises Plus Seven Critical Skills to Keep Children Out of the Middle by Chet Muklewicz

Video about Divorce and Mediation

About Mediation: A Mediator Explains the Process and Benefits of Business & Divorce Mediation (about two minutes)

Dealing with Divorce: Anju D. Jessani is part of Panel on Real Savvy TV, along with a Therapist and Two Divorced Parents (about 20 minutes)

Movies about Divorce

Kramer vs. Kramer (1979): A just divorced man must learn to care for his son on his own when his ex leaves town, and then fights in court to keep custody of him when she returns.

Mrs. Doubtfire (1993): After a bitter divorce, a non-custodial father disguises himself as a female housekeeper to spend secret time with his children at his ex's house.

The Parent Trap (1961): Twins who, unknown to their divorced parents, meet at a summer camp, then contrive to reunite their parents.

The Squid and the Whale (2005): Two boys deal with their self-involved parents' divorce that leaves their lives in turmoil, as they deal with the own coming of age.

The War of the Roses (1989): A married couple try everything to get each other to leave the house in a vicious divorce battle to the death.

Find an Advanced Practitioner Mediator Nationally

The Association for Conflict Resolution (ACR) is a national organization, located in Washington DC, is dedicated to enhancing the practice and public understanding of conflict resolution. The association maintains a list of mediators who have met their training and experience requirements. Find an Advanced Practitioner Mediator at www.acrnet.org or call (202) 464-9700

Find an Accredited Professional Mediator in New Jersey

New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators (NJAPM, located in Trenton, NJ, is New Jersey's largest mediation organization, and the only New Jersey mediation organization with a structured accreditation process. The association maintains a list of mediators who have met their training and experience requirements. Find an Accredited Professional Mediator (APM®) at www.njapm.org, or call (800) 981-4800 or (908) 359-1184

Find a Family/Divorce Practitioner in New Jersey

The Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC) is both an international and interdisciplinary professional association dedicated to the constructive resolution of family disputes. This includes lawyers, mediators, psychologists, child custody evaluators, social workers, parenting coordinators, and others professionals, researchers, and academics. Find a family law practitioner at
www.AFCC-NJ.org